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Sunday, September 5, 2010

Cyber Bullying

   If there is one thing that should be More talked about it cyber bullying i know who am i to just bring this up well believe it or not i have had my fair share or being picked on. As of now i have deleted my MYSPACE to get away from being picked on i am now just on FACEBOOK where i thought it was only my family, I have learned i have many of people that dislike me well more like one the others have not yet popped up but i'm sure they will. this person as gone as low as making a profile names Die Sam with a picture of a fat person. Now part of me wants to sit here and be like yeah it didn't hurt well i'm not going to lie it has i have asked this person to leave me alone and yet they continue. Now that i have shared my little story i think you should hear other

Megan Meier was a 13 year old from Missouri who struck up an online friendship on the popular social networking site MySpace with a person she believed was a new boy in her hometown. In actuality, the “friend” was a group of individuals, including adults, who were intent on humiliating the poor girl because of a friendship with another child that had gone awry. Megan was very upset when she found out the truth, then later committed suicide once the friendship had terminated. The horrifying case stunned the community and caused state government officials to pass some of the harshest cyber bullying laws in the country.


Kylie Kenney, an eighth grade student from Vermont lost two years of her life as a result of cyber bullying from classmates. From junior high through her sophomore year of high school, Kylie was forced to deal with websites created by her classmates that featured names like “Kill Kylie Incorporated” that were filled with threatening, homophobic remarks about the young girl. These hurtful kids obtained screen names with handles close to Kylie’s name and used them to make suggestive remarks and sexual advances on Kylie’s teammates on the field hockey team. As a result police filed charges of harassments against the individuals responsible.


In South Korea, a female college student was riding the train with her dog when it defecated on the floor of the subway car. After the girl refused to clean up the mess, another passenger on the train took her picture using her cell phone and posted it online. In the months to follow, it became an Internet sensation in South Korea and “Dog Poop” girl became the target of extreme harassment. Individuals found out her name and address and soon she was forced to withdraw from school and move to another part of the country.


This year in Clinton Missouri, charges were filed against a teenager who allegedly created a fake Facebook account to serve as a competition against a young girl who was interested romantically in a male student. The account was created by another girl who wanted the boy all to herself, the suit claims. As a result, the targeted individual underwent significant levels of stress which affected her studies and her ability to attend school regularly. The case is one of many that feature phony accounts on Facebook or MySpace that are used to harass young people or stir up trouble among friends.
Cyber Bullying has become a worldwide problem because of the difficulty to track its occurrences. It some cases it has been accepted as humor, but when is it taken to far? When a child has taken her own life because she was cyber bullied, we know it has been taken way too far.
Cyber bullying has been present in the 2008 presidential election with the slurrying of both presidential candidates John McCain and Barack Obama. Even the vice-presidential candidates Sarah Palin and Joe Biden have been victims of this abuse. These slanders wouldn’t technically be considered cyber bullying, but are loosely related. Senator Sarah Palin has received the worst of it with the creation of videos mocking her interviews on Saturday Night Live. NBC reports over 7 million views online, with millions more watching it on YouTube and Google video.

I am sorry to say but this has happen way to much to people and if needs to stop there is a point where being mean goes way to Damn far i am sick of it and i'm standing up because to me it has gone to far its gotten to the point where i'm getting phone calls saying i'm going to die. No one i don't care who you are or what you have done no one i mean no one should have to deal with it. So Stand Up and Put a STOP to this!!

Friday, September 3, 2010

♥ Surprise ♥

   What a past few months so looking at my blog i haven't posted in a long long long time last time it was June. Where have a i been, Well lets see Cole and i are learning to grow together and learning our relationship is OURS not other peoples its time now that we stop worrying about family in it. We are learning more and more about money and how to really use it ha. I know a little late but better late then never. Cole is doing great in work he is now on grad witch for some of y'all who don't know what that means that means he is grading the ASP, so he works two days and off two days. Let me tell you that took some time to get use to it was really hard at first and it seems it doesn't get any easier. 
  As for new news Cole's family now all know we are married i know i don't believe i told y'all that but for a while they didn't know Crazy i know but it was better for them. They now all know and for happy for the most part i think it was harder on his older brother and his girlfriend. Cole's older brother's name is Chris he is 24 and has a girlfriend who he has been with for 11 years now Chris has well not a guy for the word marriage as for his girlfriend she has been tiring all these years so you can only Imagen what was said when she found that me and Cole were married before them and knew each other less then they did. It was not pretty. I think Cole's dad took it even harder then his brother, his dad was married even younger then me and Cole now that's pretty young I think he was worried we would end up like him divorced. I can understand where he comes from my prenatal are divorced and remarried and one is divorced again i know how all this works and i know the odds are agents me and Cole but they way i love at it is its all about time love and really working on a marriage because no marriage is prefect and no marriage is Easy as much as all of us wish it was but think of it with fact that there are more happy times then bad one there is more love then you will ever realize and no matter how much your mad at one another you find a way to make the other laugh and you see this is way i married this person. So as for the odds with us we say We will show you! ( by the way there is a song i want y'all to listen to when your in a good mood or bad always makes me feel better its call Alright by Darius Rucker this song just makes me feel so lucky to have everything that i do have)
  So Now on to bigger and better things Cole and i got a little surprise on August 6, we found out that well..... are you sure your ready for this? i don't think you are... you sure? ok ok ok i will tell you We found out that there is a baby on the way. Yes! I said it I'm Pregnant! I know i'm just a little late telling you. Sorry... ha well for now i am 8 weeks and on Sunday (witch for some of you that don't know is in 2 days) I will be 9 weeks. I have the worst morning sickness (i know its more like all day sickness) GRR I look like i am 7 months pregnant but hey it all hit us different and i love ever minute of it. I think it will be a girl but i think we want a boy to tell you the truth we will be happy either way as love as it is health. If it is a girl we will name her Isabella Samantha Reynolds. For y'all that don't know Cole has a little sister who we love to death and her name is Samantha we thought because both of us have the same name we would keep it going who know its still early things change but i think it will work. We are thinking about the name Caven for a boy its not set yet but thats what Cole loves but the middle name will be Daniel. Ok so now lets think what else is new oh thats right we are moving off base we found a place that is prefect it has ac witch a lot of place's out here don't its cheap and we love it! other then that i would think i have let it all out. Just watch after i post this i'm going to remember something else but i will save it for next weeks post witch i swear i will write. I hope y'all have a great weekend. 
                  
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